Step 7. Humbly ask Him to remove all our shortcomings. AA.org.
The Seventh Step is where we make the change in our attitude which permits us, with humility as our guide, to move out from ourselves toward others and toward God. The whole emphasis of Step Seven is on humility. It is really saying to us that we ought to be willing to try humility in seeking the removal of our shortcomings just as we did when we admitted that we were powerless over alcohol, and came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. If that degree of humility could enable us to find the grace by which such a deadly obsession could be banished, then there must be hope of the same result respecting any other problem we could possibly have. – Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 76.
“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.” James 4:10.
We need humility for three reasons:
So that we can recognize the severity of our character defects. One aspect of our addiction is that we tend to deny and minimize the pain it inflicts. Therefore as we try to assess our character defects, we may, unless we take a very humble approach, underestimate their severity.
So that we can acknowledge the limits of human power in addressing these character defects. We cannot do it on our own. We cannot do it by sheer willpower. We cannot do it by our own intellect and reasoning.
So that we can appreciate the enormity of God’s power to transform our lives.
Step 7 is probably the most potent of the twelve. It embodies the miracle of transformation as we turn over to God our broken, defective personalities in order that He might mold them into healthy, effective instruments of His will.
– Serenity, A Companion for Twelve Step Recovery, p. 54-55.
Taking Step Seven was for many of us the greatest act of authentic humility we have ever been asked to commit to, the transfer control of our recovery to God. According to the Twelve and Twelve, humility is a clear recognition of who we are followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be. That is, humility is seeing ourselves as we actually are, good and bad, strong and weak, and acting authentically on those truths. This is not a naive attitude suggesting we have in some way already “arrived.” It is a sincere attempt to state the positive truth that when we face the truth of our shortcomings and the fact that we are powerless to change and begin to let God take our defects away, we have entered the pathway of humility. For the reality is, only God can take away our Sin, our deeply entrenched addictions, and our lifelong character defects. It is on this pathway, where we humbly ask God to remove all these defects of character, that the tools of recovery bring the healing, happiness, and security we have dreamed of. But once more it is only powerlessness and pain that can force us to take the Seventh Step into humility. A Hunger for Healing, p. 116-117.
I Lift My Hands
– Chris Tomlin
Be still, there is a healer. His love is deeper than the sea. His mercy, it is unfailing. His arms are fortress for the weak. Let faith arise. Let faith arise.
I lift my hands to believe again. You are my refuge, You are my strength. As I pour out my heart these things, I remember. You are faithful, God, forever.
When ready, we say something like this:
“My Creator, I am now willing that you should have all of me, good and bad. I pray that you now remove from me every single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness to you and my fellows. Grant me strength, as I go out from here, to do your bidding. Amen.”
We have then completed Step Seven. – A.A. Big Book p.76.